I have had the luck of working extensively with Becki over the course of my high conflict divorce and post decree issues. She has been a paralegal on my case, but also has provided me with emotional support, grounding, and translating the issues at hand from legal-ese into context I can more fully understand. The way the legal system operates is often counterintuitive, frightening, or foreign when compared to how we live every day lives, and this can create so much stress when our families and finances are on the line. Becki has always taken the time to be present with me, to help me understand what is happening, to help me process my feelings so that I can make the best decisions based on my wants and needs, and to help me communicate those things in a clear way to the people advocating for me. I am thrilled to see her engaging with more people in this capacity, as she has a unique gift for truly seeing people and holding space for them during some of the most confusing and distressing times of their lives. She is professional, honest, kind, supportive and fun, and the amount of help she brings is immense. You won’t regret working with her for a single minute.

For the first 2 years of my co-parenting relationship, tensions ran very high. While Becki was not technically my “divorce coach”, her coaching and amazing outlooks and insights toward my situation were invaluable. She never made me feel like if I didn’t take her advice, it would damage our relationship. Becki was always there to remind me what the final goal was. I love that she is so child focused, she doesn’t play games and really cares about the children. I went from having no idea what co-parenting even was, to effectively co-parenting in a previously high conflict relationship. I could not have achieved that without the help and guidance of Becki. With her help I am now able to co-parent effectively and with a healthy child focused attitude. Having Becki in my life to guide me through this process has taught me so much, She made navigating the legal process actually make sense, she helped make sense of the things my attorney was telling me, Becki let me vent but always made sure when we talked we stayed focus on my goal and not getting caught up in the stuff that didn’t matter. Her background allows her to provide unique and on-point insight into many situations. The family law system is so overwhelming and Becki was there to help process it. I can never thank her enough for all she did for me during that time of my life.

I worked with Becki throughout my long divorce process. While divorce was one of the hardest things I have ever gone through, I can't imagine how much harder it would have been without having Becki as my paralegal. Divorce is a legal, financial and emotional web which for me resulted in feeling completely helpless at times. However, the process marched on and Becki was there every step of the way telling me what had to be done, validating the difficulty, reassuring me that I could do it, giving me practical advice and gently pushing me forward. She was my brain when I felt I had none, my motivation when I was exhausted and a trusted ally. In a legal world that was intimidating, she was my daily guide on what I had to do next without condescension and with much warmth and humor. Where loss clouded my judgment, she was honest and clear-thinking. She is as hard-working an ally that you will ever find. I came out of my divorce believing that I had completed my journey with integrity to myself and my family. The outcome of my divorce was enhanced by Becki's knowledge of the law and investment in a fair outcome. I am very grateful to have had her support and expertise and highly recommend her to anyone going through this difficult process.

Having Becki as my divorce coach was as important as having a good a attorney and good therapist. She gave me great advice, support and direction when I needed it the most. Her experience and knowledge was an invaluable asset during the most stressful time of my life. She is easy to talk to and very relatable. I genuinely appreciate, and highly recommend her services as a divorce coach!